I intentionally use the phrase “spend smarter” instead of “spend less” because money is meant to flow. While many people probably spend more money than they should, it doesn’t mean that we should all just stop spending money forever. There is actually just as much dysfunction in hoarding every dime you receive as there is in spending every dime you’ve ever had.

If I can get a little woo woo with you, by indulging your inner Scrooge McDuck, you’re sending a message to the universe that you don’t trust that you will receive any more. When you turn yourself inward, fanatically checking your bank statements, you forget to open yourself up to the abundance that could come from getting that haircut that’ll make you feel like a goddess or signing up for the training that will propel your career.

On the other hand, by spending indiscriminately on every shiny thing that crosses your Instagram feed, you’re signaling that you will not shepherd your coins toward the things that create more value. When the universe does present you with new opportunities, you’re so stressed by your empty bank account and so distracted by the other thing you could spend your money on, you completely miss out.

Bevin Morgan

Writing since February 2022 · 1 story contributed